how do you tell someone....?

How do you comfort someone when you know that the out come will be bad?

How do you tell someone every thing's going to be alright when you know that its not?

What would you tell your friend, if they told you that their moms super sick with lunge cancer, to the point that she's going to pass away and they only have 2 choices to
1) Just end it now
2) Do the Tracheotomy: a tube that is surgically implanted into the neck so that you can breath easy. So that she may live up to 2 years longer but be bed ridden, unable to talk, and suffer through treatments and the pain.
and asked you what would you do if you you were in my situation?

I don't know what I would do, I didn't know how to break it down to my friend. I need some help.

any advise?

Update

I realized i've done wrong. but I leave myself with no room for regret. Theres no point in me hating myself for the things that i've done, because being angry on makes you tired. And I need all the energy I can get to grow and learn from my mistakes.
dont you just hate it when things come in waves, one right after the other pounding on you, no room that you can't even lift you head up to breath?
you think to yourself "why didn't i just go to a lake or a pool its a lot more calm."
as quickly as you ask yourself that question you give yourself an answer. "I came out here for a challange, to experiecne something new." And this is what it is for me. 2007 started off great, but ended with a whole bunch of waves coming at me tossing me everywhich way, even giving me a leg cramp. no matter how many waves bring me down i still keep swimming upward... all the way to the top to catch a breath.

2008 is a bit on the rocky side... but i'm sure i can pull through.


Monday, December 31, 2007

Subject:no to resolutions this year
why do i say no? its because every year i say that I'm going to do something but never follow threw with it for the rest of the year. so this year I'm not going to make one. This year is going to be different from the rest because well its just going to be. Time for readjustments and some changes. In serious need of some love, laughs, arguments, tears, happiness, this will probably be brought to my by those who i love/dislike n haven't seen in a while. So I'm ready for you new year.Good bye 2007 you made me laugh, you made me cry, you took some people from me, you gave me new interest, you gave me my first accident, and its the first time i lost my phone, you brought old friends back into my life and i've also made new ones. So thank you 2007 for the good times and the sad times.

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one way to end a year on the16th of december 2 weeks b4 da year ends get into a car accident 17-24 december spend all ur work money on gifts 4 other ppl 24th, hang out w/ hommies go home da morning of da 25th get ready 4 church with family hav lunch n go 2 hommies house n chill 26-28 work ur ass off, n dat thursday n firday get faded Thursday make sure u drink but not to much that u can't go to work the next day, go from a club to a bar, follow people who don't kno where their going. walk past da garage only 2 go back 2 it, get 2 da bar n wait outside becaouse of cops, eventually get in, see ppl u know n almost get into a fight w/ sum drunk ass beeziee.Make sure dat Friday u get soo faded dat u drunk text ppl, use da bathroom bout 6 times, lose ur phone n nothin else, throw up right next 2 da bar, supposidly on sum1 shoe, go 2 dennys w/ da girls u went clubbin w/ n throw up in da bathroom sittin on da floor. talking 2 1 of ur best girls bout problems. den eventually hav ur bf come n pick u up w/ 1 of ur best guy friends take u home but b4 we exit 2 home pound on da window tellin em 2 pull over n throw up on the side of da road. after dat get into ur house run 2 da bathroom throw up sumore rip off da cloths u we wearin put on ur pjs and pass out. 29th wake up hung over dat u can't go 2 work so u call in n 4 da rest of da day u sleep 30 chill with the bf and some friends... get a phone call from one ur best girlfriends to go out to reggae nights... go to Family's house n get ready go to reggae night n have a blast 31 do as much as u can n get ur phone back online. now all u need is ppls numbers, go to OSH pick up some stuff den go to Walgreen n head to the bfs house. chill for a min shoot back to ur house make sushi n clean da house and find urself updatin about da new years.
10:19 PM

Sunday, December 23, 2007

sybject: done with
i'm freakin done.
... I'm sorry that u're the one walking in and out of my life.
hommies for life but nothing more...
I thank you for all the good times. and i'm sorry that i've ever made the effort.
4:01 AM

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

subject: 12-16-07

I will never know who you are,

but I will always love you
12-16-07
12:51 AM

Monday, December 17, 2007
subject: contemplating
choices need to be made,
life style changes, need to be handled
the who, what, where, when, why, and how questions need to be answered.
is its really love? is it just false assumptions? the want and need to be with someone special?love is a crazy thing.
decisionsclarification..... new chapter of my life needs to be updated and changed....

but as for now i shall do what i have to do to get by and... when something new happens. i will deffinatly let you know.
10:53 PM